"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl at wedding

vonbock

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Met a girl at a wedding along with her sister. She is 30 years, never been married. After the wedding, she, her sister, me and my relatives went to a club and stayed out until the wee hours of the morning.
1st, is a girl at 30 years old and still clubbing have issues? I thought most are trying to settle down at that age
2nd she gave me her number and I left a message once, if she doens't return the call should I just toss the number?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ilikeburritos

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I'll call once, if no answer leave a voicemail and that's that...no more calling unless she calls you back first.
 

Effington

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30 is not too old to go to clubs, welcome to 70% of Chicago. The other 30% will be there in five years. Just because they go to clubs doesn't mean they are not looking to settle down, actually. My neighbors are both getting up there but club all the time, and they're bonafide hotties, along with all their friends. 30 is starting to be the youngest people get married nowadays. I'm 25 and I only know like 3 married couples. Most of my friends are not in serious relationships, even.

As for the chica, if she doesn't return your message, maybe try once more like a week later, just incase there were technical difficulties. But after that, the ball is in her court.
 
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