"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Theres this girl at the video store...i think she kinda digs me. i think shes cute too, we are both around the same age of 21. She has a little son...when i come in she always asks how im doing at work n stuff....she has a fair interest level in me i think. How would you guys approach this girl and find out if she has a husband or BF w/o really asking her? i was thinking something along these lines...

Me: So hows your son doing??
Me: So when youre at work does your BF or husband take turns taking care of him?

What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that.. OPINIONS and ADVICE are greatly appreciated... Thank You.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Originally posted by Ken785
What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that..
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Why wouldn't you want an answer like that? Are you afraid? Insecure? Scared of the awkwardness?

My friend, that's not very manly of you. You need to find the courage in yourself to ask her straight out, with the EXACT following words: "So, do you have a boyfriend?" It's pure, simple, and doesn't mean anything. If she says "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't have time for a relationship" say something like the following with a big SMILE: "You know, I wasn't even thinking of that... I can't jump to conclusions as fast as you, I need to get to know someone a little better first, find out who they really are... etc"

This isn't rocket science. Just a simple question.
 
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Good form. That's exactly what I;d have said.
 
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looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...
 
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Originally posted by Ken785
looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...
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could've checked for a ring
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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