"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl at video store...

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Theres this girl at the video store...i think she kinda digs me. i think shes cute too, we are both around the same age of 21. She has a little son...when i come in she always asks how im doing at work n stuff....she has a fair interest level in me i think. How would you guys approach this girl and find out if she has a husband or BF w/o really asking her? i was thinking something along these lines...

Me: So hows your son doing??
Me: So when youre at work does your BF or husband take turns taking care of him?

What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that.. OPINIONS and ADVICE are greatly appreciated... Thank You.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Ken785
What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that..
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Why wouldn't you want an answer like that? Are you afraid? Insecure? Scared of the awkwardness?

My friend, that's not very manly of you. You need to find the courage in yourself to ask her straight out, with the EXACT following words: "So, do you have a boyfriend?" It's pure, simple, and doesn't mean anything. If she says "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't have time for a relationship" say something like the following with a big SMILE: "You know, I wasn't even thinking of that... I can't jump to conclusions as fast as you, I need to get to know someone a little better first, find out who they really are... etc"

This isn't rocket science. Just a simple question.
 
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Good form. That's exactly what I;d have said.
 
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looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...
 
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Originally posted by Ken785
looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...
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could've checked for a ring
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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