Girl at video store...

[Ken785]

Theres this girl at the video store...i think she kinda digs me. i think shes cute too, we are both around the same age of 21. She has a little son...when i come in she always asks how im doing at work n stuff....she has a fair interest level in me i think. How would you guys approach this girl and find out if she has a husband or BF w/o really asking her? i was thinking something along these lines...

Me: So hows your son doing??
Me: So when youre at work does your BF or husband take turns taking care of him?

What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that.. OPINIONS and ADVICE are greatly appreciated... Thank You.

 

[Engetsu]

Originally posted by Ken785
What you guys think? if she is a single mom, how should i approach her w/o getting a response of "i dont have time for a realationship cuz of my son" or anything like that..

Why wouldn't you want an answer like that? Are you afraid? Insecure? Scared of the awkwardness?

My friend, that's not very manly of you. You need to find the courage in yourself to ask her straight out, with the EXACT following words: "So, do you have a boyfriend?" It's pure, simple, and doesn't mean anything. If she says "I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't have time for a relationship" say something like the following with a big SMILE: "You know, I wasn't even thinking of that... I can't jump to conclusions as fast as you, I need to get to know someone a little better first, find out who they really are... etc"

This isn't rocket science. Just a simple question.

 

[Walden]

Good form. That's exactly what I;d have said.

 

[Ken785]

looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Ken785
looked her up on my space...found out she was "Married". wheeww....saved me the time of asking her...

could've checked for a ring

 

[unistork]

How did you just happen to find her on MySpace?