"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl at lunch

Jokerlsk

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Okay, so i'm a sophomore, and my sister is a freshman. At lunch there is this one girl that I like to mess with, with my friends. She's cute, and there's no harm in it, but this girl goes off to talk to my sister about me.
She pretty much asked my sister why I don't like her or something like that.
I really don't know how to interpret this.
Does this mean that she's inerested in me or what?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It doesn't mean she's necessarily interested in you. Did you hear her ask it? The tone of her voice? She may have been just having fun like, "Oh my God, why doesn't he like me? Lol" or upset, like, "I don't understand why he doesn't like me...." In any case don't take this as a sign that she's interested, even though she might be. She could just view you as a friend.
 

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OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
 

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Jokerlsk said:
OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
she's into you most def, hook up with her... just try not to make it too corny for everyone's sake, tho it might be hard since she already did that
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jokerlsk

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Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
 

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Jokerlsk said:
Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
Girls are more shy than us ;)
Give her a call!

They usually talk to their friends about guys they like, and in turn their friends feel like they should play matchmaker and will try to hook you guys up!
Has happened to me a few times already. Just go with it, shes interested. :)
 

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Yeah, but this girl is probably the hottest girl in her class, and i'm like my class' class clown.
 

Jokerlsk

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Okay, well that girl said it wasn't an accident and told me to text her.
I'll keep you guys updated
 

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Dude try to keep it light and fun like you've been doing. Say something along the lines of "Sooo...Jokerlsk thinks we should chill sometime" etc. as a joke (only you're not joking ;))
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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