"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girl at lunch

Jokerlsk

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Okay, so i'm a sophomore, and my sister is a freshman. At lunch there is this one girl that I like to mess with, with my friends. She's cute, and there's no harm in it, but this girl goes off to talk to my sister about me.
She pretty much asked my sister why I don't like her or something like that.
I really don't know how to interpret this.
Does this mean that she's inerested in me or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It doesn't mean she's necessarily interested in you. Did you hear her ask it? The tone of her voice? She may have been just having fun like, "Oh my God, why doesn't he like me? Lol" or upset, like, "I don't understand why he doesn't like me...." In any case don't take this as a sign that she's interested, even though she might be. She could just view you as a friend.
 

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OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
 

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Jokerlsk said:
OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
she's into you most def, hook up with her... just try not to make it too corny for everyone's sake, tho it might be hard since she already did that
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jokerlsk

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Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
 

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Jokerlsk said:
Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
Girls are more shy than us ;)
Give her a call!

They usually talk to their friends about guys they like, and in turn their friends feel like they should play matchmaker and will try to hook you guys up!
Has happened to me a few times already. Just go with it, shes interested. :)
 

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Yeah, but this girl is probably the hottest girl in her class, and i'm like my class' class clown.
 

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Okay, well that girl said it wasn't an accident and told me to text her.
I'll keep you guys updated
 

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Dude try to keep it light and fun like you've been doing. Say something along the lines of "Sooo...Jokerlsk thinks we should chill sometime" etc. as a joke (only you're not joking ;))
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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