"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl at lunch

Jokerlsk

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Okay, so i'm a sophomore, and my sister is a freshman. At lunch there is this one girl that I like to mess with, with my friends. She's cute, and there's no harm in it, but this girl goes off to talk to my sister about me.
She pretty much asked my sister why I don't like her or something like that.
I really don't know how to interpret this.
Does this mean that she's inerested in me or what?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It doesn't mean she's necessarily interested in you. Did you hear her ask it? The tone of her voice? She may have been just having fun like, "Oh my God, why doesn't he like me? Lol" or upset, like, "I don't understand why he doesn't like me...." In any case don't take this as a sign that she's interested, even though she might be. She could just view you as a friend.
 

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OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
 

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Jokerlsk said:
OKay, well we'll call this girl, X. One of X's friends added me on facebook and sent me a message. It was titled, "X's number." The only thing inside the message was X's number hahaha. I don't know how to interpret this really. I mean, should i call her? I just don't want this to be a joke or something.
she's into you most def, hook up with her... just try not to make it too corny for everyone's sake, tho it might be hard since she already did that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jokerlsk

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Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
 

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Jokerlsk said:
Yeah, i mean why would you get a friend to give me your number?
Girls are more shy than us ;)
Give her a call!

They usually talk to their friends about guys they like, and in turn their friends feel like they should play matchmaker and will try to hook you guys up!
Has happened to me a few times already. Just go with it, shes interested. :)
 

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Yeah, but this girl is probably the hottest girl in her class, and i'm like my class' class clown.
 

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Okay, well that girl said it wasn't an accident and told me to text her.
I'll keep you guys updated
 

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Dude try to keep it light and fun like you've been doing. Say something along the lines of "Sooo...Jokerlsk thinks we should chill sometime" etc. as a joke (only you're not joking ;))
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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