"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Girl at gym picked ME up.

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So i was working out and went to refil my bottle when a girl stoped me and just asked straight out....

"Hey, so excuse me for being so upfront... but i would like to ask you if you want to go out on a blindate with my friend ?"

-I smiled and just asked is she goodlooking ? then she showed me a picture of her, and yes she was HOT. "

Then she asked if she could take a picture of me and send to her friend, i said no problem. After her friend seen the picture, she wanted my
number... again i said no problem... why not ;)

So working out like an animal 6 days a week has its benifits... :devil:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot girls usually dont need/want friends to arrange blinddates for them.

This stinks..... take care.
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We'll be seeing this guy on Candid Camera soon. Or Ashton Kutcher is gonna jump out of locker screaming "You've been punk'd" :D

Nah, seriously, great that these things happen from time to time. I agree, this is very rare and be careful. She might be setting you up with a manatee and the picture was a decoy or very, very old picture. Girls are also excellent photographers who are able to make a circus poodle look like a gorgeous blond long-haired collie when they need a picture for their Instagram.
 

ThisIsSparta

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I got nothing to lose, gonna see her at the gym and work out with her. If shes ugly thats gonna be the first and the last "date", if shes hot iam gonna bang her.. simple as that.
Good luck!

Let us know how it turned out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got nothing to lose, gonna see her at the gym and work out with her. If shes ugly thats gonna be the first and the last "date", if shes hot iam gonna bang her.. simple as that.
Tell her you need to see her squat form for when she is doing it on your c0ck hahaha
 

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So i was working out and went to refil my bottle when a girl stoped me and just asked straight out....

"Hey, so excuse me for being so upfront... but i would like to ask you if you want to go out on a blindate with my friend ?"

-I smiled and just asked is she goodlooking ? then she showed me a picture of her, and yes she was HOT. "

Then she asked if she could take a picture of me and send to her friend, i said no problem. After her friend seen the picture, she wanted my
number... again i said no problem... why not ;)

So working out like an animal 6 days a week has its benifits... :devil:
It seems you're a master at Water bottle Refilling Game. Well played!
 

Modern Man Advice

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So i was working out and went to refil my bottle when a girl stoped me and just asked straight out....

"Hey, so excuse me for being so upfront... but i would like to ask you if you want to go out on a blindate with my friend ?"

-I smiled and just asked is she goodlooking ? then she showed me a picture of her, and yes she was HOT. "

Then she asked if she could take a picture of me and send to her friend, i said no problem. After her friend seen the picture, she wanted my
number... again i said no problem... why not ;)

So working out like an animal 6 days a week has its benifits... :devil:
Hey man, take this for what it's worth. Keep your expectations in check, be positive, but also be realistic and expect something fishy so you're not disappointed or messes with your head. Cause this certainly has a fishy scent to it.

But hey, if it works, then enjoy brother!


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She told you if you go out on a date with her, and you essentially replied like a 100% beta male, ignoring her. There shall be no real date, just your boosted ego.

Oh, if her friend don't call you, that's because there is no friend. Great work on telling that girl no date for you. You're a GD date nazi, just like soup nazi in singfield.
 

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Ignore the haters man. this is awesome. Most guys don't experience this. I wish I could be this guy but right now I'm certainly not complaining. I love the situation I'm in. However, you're spot on about working out/lifting having its benefits.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She told you if you go out on a date with her, and you essentially replied like a 100% beta male, ignoring her. There shall be no real date, just your boosted ego.

Oh, if her friend don't call you, that's because there is no friend. Great work on telling that girl no date for you. You're a GD date nazi, just like soup nazi in singfield.
:love:

And i love you toooooooooooooo
 

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This is the definition of social circle game.
It puts you in leagues above the rest of the competition.
You'll also have a very high success rate if you two ever go on a date.

Social circle game cuts out all the bullsh!t filters.
 
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