"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl are blinking her eyes often? and trouble holding eye contact with you?

kingman

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Girl are blinking her eyes often?
And she has trouble holding eye contact with you?

What does that mean?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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magickarl

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Hard telling without other descriptions of body language.

She could be shy. She may not be interested at all. She may need eye-drops.

Pay attention to other details:

- Is her body "pointed" towards yours?
- Are her arms open and her palms showing?
- Is she smiling while she looks away?
- Look in to her eyes. Are her pupils large or small?
- What kind of things is she saying to you?
 

VdoubleR

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magickarl said:
Hard telling without other descriptions of body language.
I agree with that.

Since you didn't mention any specifics, let me consider some factors that might make her blink excessively.
a) Lighting.
b) Nervous tick.
c) She might be a shy girl.
d) She might need eye drops.

-VdoubleR
 

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i once moved some furniture for a woman who could not look people in the eye at all

it was painfully obvious how miserable and alone she was but back then I was a dbag myself so i didn't know how to reach out to her....its very sad when i think about it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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