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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Girl are blinking her eyes often? and trouble holding eye contact with you?

kingman

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Girl are blinking her eyes often?
And she has trouble holding eye contact with you?

What does that mean?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hard telling without other descriptions of body language.

She could be shy. She may not be interested at all. She may need eye-drops.

Pay attention to other details:

- Is her body "pointed" towards yours?
- Are her arms open and her palms showing?
- Is she smiling while she looks away?
- Look in to her eyes. Are her pupils large or small?
- What kind of things is she saying to you?
 

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magickarl said:
Hard telling without other descriptions of body language.
I agree with that.

Since you didn't mention any specifics, let me consider some factors that might make her blink excessively.
a) Lighting.
b) Nervous tick.
c) She might be a shy girl.
d) She might need eye drops.

-VdoubleR
 

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i once moved some furniture for a woman who could not look people in the eye at all

it was painfully obvious how miserable and alone she was but back then I was a dbag myself so i didn't know how to reach out to her....its very sad when i think about it
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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