my situation is a bit awkward, there's this girl in my class she's about 9.0, she's pretty hot, and at the beginning i was thinking that i had no shot with this girl, she's too hot, maybe a lack of confidence here anyways, there was like this party for the school and it was happening in a club, i kept seeing her and she kept doing me eyes contact during the night, so she was on the dance floor once, and she came to me, and we dance like all night, i was pretty shocked, never thought she would of came, thought she was one of tease girls *****es , and what's so sad is that i never found a good occasion to talk to her afterwards, and recently i was talking to one of her friends, and shes like damn shes all in love with you, im like repeat that, and shes like yea yea im not kidding, i found that pretty awkward since i never talked to her, maybe its love at first sight which i dont really believe in, so ill talk to her obviously when im gonna go back, but any good approaches u guys have.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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It doesn't get easier than this!! You have confirmation of her interest - the only better scenario is if she falls into your lap naked! 
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
JPFromTally
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I would venture to guess that you overuse the word "like" in real life person to person interaction as well. You should rid yourself of this crutch as early as possible in life because it makes you sound effeminate.
This is too easy, i don't think you even needed to post anything about it.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.