my situation is a bit awkward, there's this girl in my class she's about 9.0, she's pretty hot, and at the beginning i was thinking that i had no shot with this girl, she's too hot, maybe a lack of confidence here anyways, there was like this party for the school and it was happening in a club, i kept seeing her and she kept doing me eyes contact during the night, so she was on the dance floor once, and she came to me, and we dance like all night, i was pretty shocked, never thought she would of came, thought she was one of tease girls *****es , and what's so sad is that i never found a good occasion to talk to her afterwards, and recently i was talking to one of her friends, and shes like damn shes all in love with you, im like repeat that, and shes like yea yea im not kidding, i found that pretty awkward since i never talked to her, maybe its love at first sight which i dont really believe in, so ill talk to her obviously when im gonna go back, but any good approaches u guys have.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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It doesn't get easier than this!! You have confirmation of her interest - the only better scenario is if she falls into your lap naked! 
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
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I would venture to guess that you overuse the word "like" in real life person to person interaction as well. You should rid yourself of this crutch as early as possible in life because it makes you sound effeminate.
This is too easy, i don't think you even needed to post anything about it.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.