my situation is a bit awkward, there's this girl in my class she's about 9.0, she's pretty hot, and at the beginning i was thinking that i had no shot with this girl, she's too hot, maybe a lack of confidence here anyways, there was like this party for the school and it was happening in a club, i kept seeing her and she kept doing me eyes contact during the night, so she was on the dance floor once, and she came to me, and we dance like all night, i was pretty shocked, never thought she would of came, thought she was one of tease girls *****es , and what's so sad is that i never found a good occasion to talk to her afterwards, and recently i was talking to one of her friends, and shes like damn shes all in love with you, im like repeat that, and shes like yea yea im not kidding, i found that pretty awkward since i never talked to her, maybe its love at first sight which i dont really believe in, so ill talk to her obviously when im gonna go back, but any good approaches u guys have.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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It doesn't get easier than this!! You have confirmation of her interest - the only better scenario is if she falls into your lap naked! 
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
The only reason you should dance with a chickadee is to get her number - otherwise what's the purpose - to move around?
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I would venture to guess that you overuse the word "like" in real life person to person interaction as well. You should rid yourself of this crutch as early as possible in life because it makes you sound effeminate.
This is too easy, i don't think you even needed to post anything about it.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.
Honestly, go speak to her, play it cool, C&F, the usual, and she will be begging you to take her home in no time.
Just don't be uncertain about yourself, ever.
Be certain that she wants you, and she is lucky, and make sure what you convey through interactions with her is congruent with that, or she may lose interest if she finds out you aren't as good as what she hoped you to be.