"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl always tries to couple me to someone else

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Even if it that’s the case, that’s not the point. I just would like your thoughts on this?

But actually it’s true, I’ve been reading a lot about it and the horrible things is realizing everything I missed with other girls. And to confirm, I wouldn’t.
 

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Women love to matchmake. Either go out with one of her friends or don't. Stop over thinking it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
Make a move on her . If you score keep fvcking her, if you don't NEXT
 

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If she likes you that much you’ll have a chance with her further down the road when her relationship/marriage crumbles. Because it will.
You can take this one to the bank.
 

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Now the odd thing about this friendzone was this girl had a long distance bf and would hangout with me 1 on 1. Invited me to her place once through text, then backtracked minutes later. I gave her free attention like a thirsty idiot.
 
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