"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl always tries to couple me to someone else

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even if it that’s the case, that’s not the point. I just would like your thoughts on this?

But actually it’s true, I’ve been reading a lot about it and the horrible things is realizing everything I missed with other girls. And to confirm, I wouldn’t.
 

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Women love to matchmake. Either go out with one of her friends or don't. Stop over thinking it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
Make a move on her . If you score keep fvcking her, if you don't NEXT
 

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If she likes you that much you’ll have a chance with her further down the road when her relationship/marriage crumbles. Because it will.
You can take this one to the bank.
 

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Now the odd thing about this friendzone was this girl had a long distance bf and would hangout with me 1 on 1. Invited me to her place once through text, then backtracked minutes later. I gave her free attention like a thirsty idiot.
 
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