Girl always tries to couple me to someone else

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
 
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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.
Suuuuuuuure you are! good cover though. LOL
 
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Even if it that’s the case, that’s not the point. I just would like your thoughts on this?

But actually it’s true, I’ve been reading a lot about it and the horrible things is realizing everything I missed with other girls. And to confirm, I wouldn’t.
 

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It really doesn't sound good. Consider that you might be misreading her interest or signals you think are there.
 

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Women love to matchmake. Either go out with one of her friends or don't. Stop over thinking it.
 

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
More women have side gigs then us guys even like to admit these days. I just read a study of psychologists on this subject.

So maybe she wants to fck. Theres only 1 way to find out kid and if your job is worth the risk then fckn go for it. If not you better steer clear.
Her being married means nothing in this western market.
 
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It means she thinks you're attractive enough to shop around, she will learn how picky her friends are soon lol.
 

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But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken.
It’s not very common at all, but I have had this experience. She hooked me up with a quite a few of her friends for a little while as she was seeing another guy. But she was very aggressive too with flirting and it wasn’t subtle at all. The BF obviously hated me.

My advice, take advantage of the wingwoman situation for the hookups and just keep hands off her.

If she likes you that much you’ll have a chance with her further down the road when her relationship/marriage crumbles. Because it will.

No sense in inviting the added drama of an affair for something not only that she is already filling your cup with, but you can also always get from her later on without the potential problems attached to it.
 

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
Make a move on her . If you score keep fvcking her, if you don't NEXT
 

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If she likes you that much you’ll have a chance with her further down the road when her relationship/marriage crumbles. Because it will.
You can take this one to the bank.
 

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There's this girl at work, well girl, she's 5 years older but fine as hell and has a husband with two kids. Just wondering about the following, so not looking for the "don't **** where you eat" or "you don't mess with someone elses girl" as I'm not planning on that. Just looking for advice as I'm trying to learn more about behaviour.

She very often tries to set me up with other girls, they're always very good looking. But I once heard from a guy who is good with girls, that it means she's quite interested in you when she does that when she's taken. There are other IOI's which confirm this, but then there is one which is the opposite (never sends a text out of the blue for example).

Now this is just about that coupling on which I want your opinions.

Thanks
I used to have friends wives try to set me up with their friends. It usually just means they think you're a good guy, or even that their friends expressed particular interest. My wife even tried to set one of my friends up, and it was such a disaster she abandoned any further match-making aspirations. I don't think any of my friends's wives had a thing for me, and i know my wife's attempt to set my friend up was motivated by her friend asking if i had any single friends, and he wasn't seeing anyone.

I wouldn't read too much into it. Just be grateful you have friends throwing good-looking women at you, and leave it at that. Curiosity killed the goose.
 
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Now the odd thing about this friendzone was this girl had a long distance bf and would hangout with me 1 on 1. Invited me to her place once through text, then backtracked minutes later. I gave her free attention like a thirsty idiot.
 
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