Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does this mean she's not into it anymore and I should next her?
She's not initiating hangout out or calls. She just says she's exhausted from work. It's only been a couple weeks of this but I'm getting annoyed.
Any advice? This girl used to contact everyday and would always want to hang out...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Find another plate and stop worrying about this one, sounds like she is your only option. She will contact you again if she wants to. If you made the last meeting arrangements wait for her to ask when your free. If she doesn't don't talk to her again, next.
 
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n52 said:
Find another plate and stop worrying about this one, sounds like she is your only option. She will contact you again if she wants to. If you made the last meeting arrangements wait for her to ask when your free. If she doesn't don't talk to her again, next.
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Sounds like she is just a "plate" right? Shes not your girlfriend? If thats the case you definitely need to take a chill pill. If you are over pursuing a girl it will only push her away even farther. Take some time to meet some new people and she will come back on her own if she wants. If she doesnt....oh well you should be busy with other people that it shouldnt even matter to you.
 
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It sounds like she just needs a little space. Don't "next" her or NC her. Just wait a week and see if she reaches out. If she doesn't, contact her and see if she wants to do something.

If she doesn't, THEN you can next her.

You would not be worrying about this one girl if you had two more to hang out with.
 
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