You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think it will have just about 0% to do with anything that you talk about.
Why are we defending Feminist in here? You should know by now that this place is the anti matriarchal grounds of dudes like Pook who stood for the patriarchy and Men's rights. We may not be allowed to talk about politics in here, but when it comes to Men's rights and Men's empowerment, I'm all game and consider that aspect a free for all for Femnazi bashing lol.
The manospere perfectly described in one small paragraph.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
More like defending illogical conclusions being made from things that have no relation to each other.
Lol...Now you're sounding like a whiny male lefty feminist working for George Soro's antifa or some crap like that. This forum has always been Pro Men's rights and Men's empowerment as evident by the crappy divorce laws in America or in the West today.
Feminism is dead. The trannies killed it. You can't have gender identity when gender isn't even a thing. In the liberal college town near me, every time women try to have a women's group of any sort, a bunch of dudes in dresses show up.
Lmao....Pook and The Brotherhood would be shaking his head at you right now. I have a feeling your secretly a Male Feminist like good ole Gamisch here. We butt heads all the time because you don't agree with my Christian and masculine views on dating right? Dude, respect my views like I respect yours brother. Think of our views of that of politics, we may disagree with one another but sees both sides and its pros and cons. We need to focus on a common enemy and that is the millions of men being screwed by the divorce laws daily here in America. We need to be compassionate of them, have a sense of empathy and lend an ear for them to speak their mind and vent.
LOL
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The so-called Blue Wave is no more mysterious than the sight of folks hopping into bed with someone other than their current SO. Human beings crave variety, and in a nation where only 2 parties truly exist, elections are little more than a see saw between what are essentially a couple of rival gangs
I don't even know what the feck you're saying, just a bunch of gibberish.
You're the one resorting to name calling ,basically rage baiting. But with the amount of time you didn't get any p00sy thats kinda understandable.. especially giving the effort you put in it.
Add to that:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
And that’s the thing no one even knows who she is go figure. I agree with what you’re saying about the feminism issue
She's only half mexican anyway, just like Obama is half black. Guess her other race.
