Remulak
Senior Don Juan
I'm looking for an honest answer, what percentage of the male population would you say are AFCs?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.Delta said:right. the AVERAGE guy. that's most.
in high school, it's the jocks vs. everybody else. not a large percentage.
the meat heads represent the masculine epitome of manhood and they reap the rewards.
delta
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.PigAdlemPimp said:My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.
Did the jocks like or hate the other jocks, were they champion athletes, were they bullies, were they superhunks, what made them different.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Great post, DJ's fall into 3 categories, (1) the dude who is extremely confident and successful when it comes to picking up hot babes in social environments, bars nightclubs parties etc, though will never sarge and cold approach any hot babes in public places such as shopping malls, bus stops, on a train, whilst walking around a hospital grounds, etc, about 15% of dudes fall into this category, (2) the dude who is a full on DJ and successfully sarges and cold approaches hot babes everywhere, only 5% of dudes are like this, (3) the dude who is one of the above 2 though often becomes obsessed by the one sole hot babe whom he is fvcking at the time, resulting in his turning into an AFC once he has got the girl, even though he has DJ qualities before he has fvcked her, maybe half of all DJ's are like this.skip2mylou781 said:an AFC is any guy who sees a girl he would fvck, and does not try to talk to her.......that would be 95% deff
an AFC would also be a guy who has a girl on a date, wants to fvck her, and acts all nice and unsexual, resulting in a LJBF - id say thats 75% of guys
an AFC would develop oneitis really fast for a girl hes dating (i fall into that catergory lol) - that would be like 85% of all guys
so, doin the math, 85% of all guys are AFCS
When I was attending high school the dudes who were the champion athletes and were also extremely good looking always got the hottest girls.Delta said:what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.
they also tend to be physically masculine which would make them dominant by default in the animal world.
delta