Remulak
Senior Don Juan
I'm looking for an honest answer, what percentage of the male population would you say are AFCs?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.Delta said:right. the AVERAGE guy. that's most.
in high school, it's the jocks vs. everybody else. not a large percentage.
the meat heads represent the masculine epitome of manhood and they reap the rewards.
delta
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.PigAdlemPimp said:My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.
Did the jocks like or hate the other jocks, were they champion athletes, were they bullies, were they superhunks, what made them different.![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Great post, DJ's fall into 3 categories, (1) the dude who is extremely confident and successful when it comes to picking up hot babes in social environments, bars nightclubs parties etc, though will never sarge and cold approach any hot babes in public places such as shopping malls, bus stops, on a train, whilst walking around a hospital grounds, etc, about 15% of dudes fall into this category, (2) the dude who is a full on DJ and successfully sarges and cold approaches hot babes everywhere, only 5% of dudes are like this, (3) the dude who is one of the above 2 though often becomes obsessed by the one sole hot babe whom he is fvcking at the time, resulting in his turning into an AFC once he has got the girl, even though he has DJ qualities before he has fvcked her, maybe half of all DJ's are like this.skip2mylou781 said:an AFC is any guy who sees a girl he would fvck, and does not try to talk to her.......that would be 95% deff
an AFC would also be a guy who has a girl on a date, wants to fvck her, and acts all nice and unsexual, resulting in a LJBF - id say thats 75% of guys
an AFC would develop oneitis really fast for a girl hes dating (i fall into that catergory lol) - that would be like 85% of all guys
so, doin the math, 85% of all guys are AFCS
When I was attending high school the dudes who were the champion athletes and were also extremely good looking always got the hottest girls.Delta said:what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.
they also tend to be physically masculine which would make them dominant by default in the animal world.
delta