Remulak
Senior Don Juan
I'm looking for an honest answer, what percentage of the male population would you say are AFCs?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.Delta said:right. the AVERAGE guy. that's most.
in high school, it's the jocks vs. everybody else. not a large percentage.
the meat heads represent the masculine epitome of manhood and they reap the rewards.
delta
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.PigAdlemPimp said:My question to you is are all jocks AlphaMales and are all AlphaMales jocks, I don't think so.
Did the jocks like or hate the other jocks, were they champion athletes, were they bullies, were they superhunks, what made them different.![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Great post, DJ's fall into 3 categories, (1) the dude who is extremely confident and successful when it comes to picking up hot babes in social environments, bars nightclubs parties etc, though will never sarge and cold approach any hot babes in public places such as shopping malls, bus stops, on a train, whilst walking around a hospital grounds, etc, about 15% of dudes fall into this category, (2) the dude who is a full on DJ and successfully sarges and cold approaches hot babes everywhere, only 5% of dudes are like this, (3) the dude who is one of the above 2 though often becomes obsessed by the one sole hot babe whom he is fvcking at the time, resulting in his turning into an AFC once he has got the girl, even though he has DJ qualities before he has fvcked her, maybe half of all DJ's are like this.skip2mylou781 said:an AFC is any guy who sees a girl he would fvck, and does not try to talk to her.......that would be 95% deff
an AFC would also be a guy who has a girl on a date, wants to fvck her, and acts all nice and unsexual, resulting in a LJBF - id say thats 75% of guys
an AFC would develop oneitis really fast for a girl hes dating (i fall into that catergory lol) - that would be like 85% of all guys
so, doin the math, 85% of all guys are AFCS
When I was attending high school the dudes who were the champion athletes and were also extremely good looking always got the hottest girls.Delta said:what made them different was social standing and confidence. if you're asking if they are the alpha males in a school setting, ABSOLUTELY.
they also tend to be physically masculine which would make them dominant by default in the animal world.
delta