Gilfriend Acting distant. Need Advice.

[SamTheHobit]

Hey Everyone.

I don't know if you can call this girl my "Girlfriend" per say. But we went out a couple times we kissed, held hands..

Anyway We haven't seen each other in a couple of weeks, Some things have come up.

So out of the blue I stop hearing from her. I initiated a couple times over the past few weeks but I get this reply's like shes down or something(Half hearted reply's).

So I decided to just stop initiating and last time we spoke vie text was a week ago.

I just would like to know what is the best course of action?

I know shes going through some stuff. So should I stay ghost. Or send her something ?? I don't know.

 

[adam225]

Dump her before she dumps you. Then go NC.

 

[like2jam]

Dump her? She's not even his girlfriend. Just go NC. She's done.

Nexxxxt.

 

[foreverAFC]

how is she your gf when she doesnt even care enough to talk to you

 

[Purefilth]

Your Princess is in another castle.

 

[TheCWord]

Pretty standard SS overreacting here.

YES to No Contact. NO to nexting. Guys are too quick to next on here. Nexting means you are DONE with this girl and you need to cut her out for your own sanity. As in: she texts you, you don't reply. I don't think this girl has OP by the balls enough to warrant a hard next.

Just hang back, don't initiate, and if she comes around and is willing to put in some effort, then, great (but even then, don't give her too much... tease, make it fun, etc.)

Now, if she comes back and then flakes again, NEXT.

P.S. She's not your girlfriend.

 

[Purefilth]

Pretty standard SS overreacting here.

YES to No Contact. NO to nexting. Guys are too quick to next on here. Nexting means you are DONE with this girl and you need to cut her out for your own sanity. As in: she texts you, you don't reply. I don't think this girl has OP by the balls enough to warrant a hard next.

Just hang back, don't initiate, and if she comes around and is willing to put in some effort, then, great (but even then, don't give her too much... tease, make it fun, etc.)

Now, if she comes back and then flakes again, NEXT.

P.S. She's not your girlfriend.

Not really an overreaction now is it.

OP has kissed her and held hands a couple of times and calls her his GIRLFRIEND.

Girl HAS him by the balls and HAS him headspinning.
She IS IN ANOTHER CASTLE.

She Has Dropped contact FOR WEEKS and doesn't give a fvck about him.


Great - yeah, hang back, dont initiate - but DON'T EXPECT HER TO EITHER.

NEXT.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I kinda mentioned she wasn't really my girlfriend if you bothered to read.

Anyway thanks everyone who posted NC it is.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I already did she said she was working, but I get the feeling that's a lie.

I think if she was interested shed initiate contact. I'm not gonna run after her and look needy.

 

[VikingKing]

If you have been a mean ******* lately, then thats why. Otherwise, she may being ****ing some one else. Never had a girl cheat, they leave because I was being a ****.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Pretty standard SS overreacting here.

YES to No Contact. NO to nexting. Guys are too quick to next on here. Nexting means you are DONE with this girl and you need to cut her out for your own sanity. As in: she texts you, you don't reply. I don't think this girl has OP by the balls enough to warrant a hard next.

Just hang back, don't initiate, and if she comes around and is willing to put in some effort, then, great (but even then, don't give her too much... tease, make it fun, etc.)

Now, if she comes back and then flakes again, NEXT.

P.S. She's not your girlfriend.

^ I agree but would add that you need to spin more plates. Or at least another plate. Even if it's plastic type quality. Less mess to clean up than a porcelain plate