"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Basically, I've known this girl for ages, but whiel I'm dating another girl, I still like this one alot more. Anyway, its her birthday this weekend, so I was wondering if this gift idea is any good: A found a nice necklace at a local mall, so i was gonna buy that and hang it on a teddy bear, and since her favourite flowers are dandy's, I was gonna put those in the teddy bears hand?

Oh, and how do you think my girlfriend would/should react to this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you serious? Shes gonna be thrilled.:rolleyes:
 
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That would be a perfect gift....................IF she was your girlfriend :)

If you do end up giving it to a gf in the future you should have a teddy bear with your name on it, and have a locket around it's neck with a picture of the two of you together.
 
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You known her, but you havent dated her? Sounds like friends zone to me.
 
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Girls don't get presents until:

1. AFTER you've ****ed them
2. and you still want to see them

So.. no present.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Unless you have gone out for awhile and would like to commit to this girl,presents are a no-no your presence should be more then enough of a present. But nonetheless that is a good idea.
 
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Get her the necklace because most guys do the teddy bear thing....

6/10 for the gift that you want to give her.
 
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If she is a dunce, or a daft biotch, get it for her. All women like to be treated like gold diggers, without asking for it at first. I bet she's going to respond with a stern look, and asking a lot of questions. She will still keep the gift though, and mention how she has to accept it, therefore releasing her from all future requirements, and pklacing the obstinant onus upon yourself.

She won't like the gift though...

It's too much, deep down, she will know she doesn't deserve it. She has other problems in her life, money in the form of a gift won't help. If some girl got me one, I'd tell her "thanks, I'll be out tomorrow trying to sell it for every penny it is worth to you". She may not respect you that much though.
 
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