Ghosted by a "super high interest" chic,

[derby1]

managed to get a girl quite submissive, she wouldnt put out, but she bought food to mine twice, travelled to mine, very responsive always initiated..

(interestingly would only stop for around an hour & ran previous partner down a bit even though hes the biggest beta known to man)

very passionate apart from the putting out, and sent me paragraph messages at a time.....

interestingly she ran her last chap down, on the first meet....(hes a short, incel behaviour guy I know of him however they've been together 2 years)

the other day after planning our 3rd meet the night before, she initiated on the morning then totally vanished....this is 100% against her usual interactions with me.....

ofcourse as usual its not a nice feeling...

however low & behold.....2 days later her and the ex are all lovey dovey on social media

bare in mind when women date beta males, it actually suits them, this guy has quite a good job, and moved in her home, he probably plowed resources into her house. and she doesnt want to lose it.

 

[King Lion]

Oh well, her loss....Remember: "She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”.

 

[derby1]

Just giving field report, been around here long enough fortunately. may help some newbies

PS shes started liking my posts again. on social media.

So predictable, So predictable

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You represent the unknown and the exciting...he represents the security and the safety blanket. She wants to experience the fun and excitement but ultimately knows she isn't going to leave the safety and security he offers. At least not at this time...

 

[Bigpapa]

Just giving field report, been around here long enough fortunately. may help some newbies

PS shes started liking my posts again. on social media.

So predictable, So predictable

women like this you have to keep them in your Circle ,as you never know when you will pop the cherry

makes sense her behavior

 

[derby1]

shes re-initiated now 48 hours later

Sent a paragraph message, confessing shes sorry and hopes i'm not mad.

will leave for a good day, not going to be to brutal, but also gonna make it clear she needs to make it up to me.

 

[Toddz]

shes re-initiated now 48 hours later

Sent a paragraph message, confessing shes sorry and hopes i'm not mad.

will leave for a good day, not going to be to brutal, but also gonna make it clear she needs to make it up to me.

Continue to push for sex, but withdraw some time and attention because right now as it is, you're not getting anything in return. She'll get the hint and either give it up or stop using you for validation and move on.

 

[metalwater]

you can either pull back in an attempt to make her try harder or you can tighten up the conversation game and get her more attached to you. one or the other WILL work but not both. you have to decide the one that will work based on instinct.

according to her, she is not cheating until the D goes in I imagine. but she is thinking about it.

just do triage, if she is more fun than any other you have available just let her visit as long as she is not married or kids with the guy.

obviously not LTR material, so file her accordingly in your thoughts.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Well she obviously wasn't "super high interest". It seems like you just read the signals wrong which happens to the best if us.

Chin up, plenty of new girls out there

 

[Georgepithyou]

Oh well, her loss....Remember: "She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”.

That sounds like something a cuckold would say, what a weak mindset to have

 

[derby1]

Well she obviously wasn't "super high interest". It seems like you just read the signals wrong

thats why i put the quotation marks, ive been around long enough brother,

the reason i was giving this one that title ,because its unusual for a chic to pay for 100% of the things and travel to you....

 

[derby1]

will be withdrawing it all & go ultra low contact till she gives me what i want

 

[BackInTheGame78]

will be withdrawing it all & go ultra low contact till she gives me what i want

Not sure she will. She enjoys the excitement of being around you but doesn't want to jeopardize her safety net.

 

[Lone Philosopher]

That sounds like something a cuckold would say, what a weak mindset to have

I feel like it's a weaker mindset to believe she's "yours". It implies some strong attachment and fear of loss. Wouldn't an alpha (or a strong mindset) be indifferent and see it as his turn instead of wanting to own her in some sense?

 

[RickTheToad]

managed to get a girl quite submissive, she wouldnt put out, but she bought food to mine twice, travelled to mine, very responsive always initiated..

(interestingly would only stop for around an hour & ran previous partner down a bit even though hes the biggest beta known to man)

very passionate apart from the putting out, and sent me paragraph messages at a time.....

interestingly she ran her last chap down, on the first meet....(hes a short, incel behaviour guy I know of him however they've been together 2 years)

the other day after planning our 3rd meet the night before, she initiated on the morning then totally vanished....this is 100% against her usual interactions with me.....

ofcourse as usual its not a nice feeling...

however low & behold.....2 days later her and the ex are all lovey dovey on social media

bare in mind when women date beta males, it actually suits them, this guy has quite a good job, and moved in her home, he probably plowed resources into her house. and she doesnt want to lose it.

If you were ghosted by a "super high interest chick", then she wasn't interested that much in the 1st place. She prob. wanted to test the field, make her boyfriend jealous, or wanted a self-esteem pick me up. Don't dwell on it too much, just dust yourself off and move on.

 

[bat soup]

managed to get a girl quite submissive, she wouldnt put out,

If she was really high interest, she'd put out. Sounds like she just wanted to suck up your time and attention.

 

[bat soup]

will be withdrawing it all & go ultra low contact till she gives me what i want

If she was interested, she already would have done it.

 

[derby1]

If you were ghosted by a "super high interest chick",

**** test in my books, back in touch after 48 hours isnt anything to cry about

 

[derby1]

If she was really high interest, she'd put out. Sounds like she just wanted to suck up your time and attention.

not neccessarily in 2 - 1 hour meets. plus travelling to me is a good thing. and buying the food.

once again on this forum we are never happy.

Also her previous bloke is as incel as they come.

She will come round again,

 

[zinc4]

managed to get a girl quite submissive, she wouldnt put out, but she bought food to mine twice, travelled to mine, very responsive always initiated..

(interestingly would only stop for around an hour & ran previous partner down a bit even though hes the biggest beta known to man)

very passionate apart from the putting out, and sent me paragraph messages at a time.....

interestingly she ran her last chap down, on the first meet....(hes a short, incel behaviour guy I know of him however they've been together 2 years)

the other day after planning our 3rd meet the night before, she initiated on the morning then totally vanished....this is 100% against her usual interactions with me.....

ofcourse as usual its not a nice feeling...

however low & behold.....2 days later her and the ex are all lovey dovey on social media

bare in mind when women date beta males, it actually suits them, this guy has quite a good job, and moved in her home, he probably plowed resources into her house. and she doesnt want to lose it.

You might think he is an incel but clearly she used you for validation while they had some kind of disagreement or whatever. Competing with a current bf/ex of 2 years who is financially successful is not an easy task OP. You are just the new guy in her mind and would prob at best be the rebound guy if she really did decide to move on from him. Women are weird like that.