Maybe it's not exactly hate but my GF had an argument with her mother over me. Her mother said i was a "gangster/bad boy/ bad influence" she ask why she only sees me in the streets and why im in the block at 12 pm etc etc. Her mother dosen't know me, but even told my GF's father about me. Who happens to be an ex-con. Now i have to meet her even though she has her doubts about me. opnions? THoughts? experiences? Any advise welcomed.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GF's mother hates me
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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wait how can you be white and be a gangsta???******* said:
You must be black or hispanic!
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ur life sucks because u say stupid sh!t like thatstupidity_humans said:
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how am I the idiot?Im just asking a question plus its a fact most gangs or gangstas are blacks or hispanics I mean how many whiteguys you see acting like gangsta,lol really you must be black or hispanic******* said:
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In that case her mother is a fvcking hypocrite******* said:
I mean, can you not see the irony?
*Woman falls uncontrollably in love with badboy*
*Woman fvcks badboy*
*Woman's "logical mind" (if she has such a thing) informs her to tell her children not to do the same, because it's bad*
p.s if you actually are a "bad boy", then grow the fvck up. I mean really.
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hey guys! I just came back from mcdonalds. I had a quarter pounder with cheese, fries, and a blue powerade. yum.
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i have two daughters. if either of them started talking to a kid that i only saw hanging in the street after midnite, well i would be one very pissed off momma. i would be giving my daughter what for, and i would be telling their father and their step father and their big brothers too.
all mothers want their daughter to date a good nice guy. we dont want our daughters to date bad boys.
all daughters want to date bad boys in spite of this.
its how it works.
all mothers want their daughter to date a good nice guy. we dont want our daughters to date bad boys.
all daughters want to date bad boys in spite of this.
its how it works.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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...and if i was a daughter of penkitten, and giving advice on forums for being pimpin, well i would be one very embarressed and ashamed daughter. i would be giving my moma what for, and i would be telling her husband that he needs to take her out more so shes not on this forum.
all daughters want their mothers to be mothers and not be a weirdo with 4,000 posts on a forum for DJs.
all mothers want to be young and feel like a teenager in spite of this.
its how it works.
all daughters want their mothers to be mothers and not be a weirdo with 4,000 posts on a forum for DJs.
all mothers want to be young and feel like a teenager in spite of this.
its how it works.
penkitten
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you are not, but lets pretend you were.....DasaniWater said:
i wouldnt let you date guy that stand out in the street after midnite either.
typical
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I gotta say thats a fvcked up reason, just cause you saw some guy thats dating your daughter in the middle of the night on the street, that does not make him a badboy.
He could actually be a very educated young man whos just out having fun late at nights.
Now to the poster, bro who cares date the girl as long as you want if she gives you crap then dit(h the bit(h.
He could actually be a very educated young man whos just out having fun late at nights.
Now to the poster, bro who cares date the girl as long as you want if she gives you crap then dit(h the bit(h.
having the mother on my good side would make it WAY easier to see the GF. Having her NOT like me would make it a b1tch actually going out with my GF. Having to sneak out everywhere is only fun for a couple of weeks.
In other words typical, i gotta fix that.
So penkitten, what's your point?
It's obvious a mother wouldn't want her daughter dating a criminal.
I know that. Now what?
In other words typical, i gotta fix that.
So penkitten, what's your point?
It's obvious a mother wouldn't want her daughter dating a criminal.
I know that. Now what?
This is some funny ****.
And this is a first class whine. Why don't you make a good impression and dress up around them. Have her home at a reasonable hour. Call her dad sir and compliment her mom on how nice her shoes are.... you know, ROCKET SCIENTIST STUFF.
And this is a first class whine. Why don't you make a good impression and dress up around them. Have her home at a reasonable hour. Call her dad sir and compliment her mom on how nice her shoes are.... you know, ROCKET SCIENTIST STUFF.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
nice, also be ready to talk about school, your goals, dreams, etc,Sexual said:
Right now... Things are playing in your hands, her mom not wanting you to date her is helping you out...
1. We want what we can't have...
2. All teenagers are rebellious like this, especially girls... If her dad is an ex-con, lol, maybe she sees him in you. Girls love guys like their dads. And yes that's so ironic.
^ lol that never works.
You see that on tv a lot, lol but in real life it sucks to be in this guys position.
She could easily anytime just get a BF that doesn' cause sh!t in the family.
lol to the original poster your account name was filtered.
You see that on tv a lot, lol but in real life it sucks to be in this guys position.
She could easily anytime just get a BF that doesn' cause sh!t in the family.
lol to the original poster your account name was filtered.
The Juan and only
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If things get unmanageable, you could try simply talking to the mother - might disarm her somewhat.
actually, the GF has broken up with guys over her mother before....So it's not exactly making me more attractive.
sexual...you are clueless.
it's hard making a good impression when she already thinks im a criminal.
Since she already thinks the worse, she would wonder how i can buy those expensive clothes im wearing to see her. I can't have her home at a resonable hour if she dosen't let her see me at all. The father is not a factor because he lives in a different place. When i do see him, that deverses a separate thread. kissing ass is not my style.
edit. I wil be talking to the moms in a couple days.
sexual...you are clueless.
it's hard making a good impression when she already thinks im a criminal.
Since she already thinks the worse, she would wonder how i can buy those expensive clothes im wearing to see her. I can't have her home at a resonable hour if she dosen't let her see me at all. The father is not a factor because he lives in a different place. When i do see him, that deverses a separate thread. kissing ass is not my style.
edit. I wil be talking to the moms in a couple days.
penkitten
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well for starters i wouldnt be hanging out late at night out in the open where her mother is going to see you.******* said:
go somewhere else to hang out.
then she can tell her mother that you arent doing that anymore.
see where i am going with this?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.