Maybe it's not exactly hate but my GF had an argument with her mother over me. Her mother said i was a "gangster/bad boy/ bad influence" she ask why she only sees me in the streets and why im in the block at 12 pm etc etc. Her mother dosen't know me, but even told my GF's father about me. Who happens to be an ex-con. Now i have to meet her even though she has her doubts about me. opnions? THoughts? experiences? Any advise welcomed.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
GF's mother hates me
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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wait how can you be white and be a gangsta???******* said:
You must be black or hispanic!
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ur life sucks because u say stupid sh!t like thatstupidity_humans said:
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how am I the idiot?Im just asking a question plus its a fact most gangs or gangstas are blacks or hispanics I mean how many whiteguys you see acting like gangsta,lol really you must be black or hispanic******* said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Juan and only
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In that case her mother is a fvcking hypocrite******* said:
I mean, can you not see the irony?
*Woman falls uncontrollably in love with badboy*
*Woman fvcks badboy*
*Woman's "logical mind" (if she has such a thing) informs her to tell her children not to do the same, because it's bad*
p.s if you actually are a "bad boy", then grow the fvck up. I mean really.
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hey guys! I just came back from mcdonalds. I had a quarter pounder with cheese, fries, and a blue powerade. yum.
penkitten
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i have two daughters. if either of them started talking to a kid that i only saw hanging in the street after midnite, well i would be one very pissed off momma. i would be giving my daughter what for, and i would be telling their father and their step father and their big brothers too.
all mothers want their daughter to date a good nice guy. we dont want our daughters to date bad boys.
all daughters want to date bad boys in spite of this.
its how it works.
all mothers want their daughter to date a good nice guy. we dont want our daughters to date bad boys.
all daughters want to date bad boys in spite of this.
its how it works.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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...and if i was a daughter of penkitten, and giving advice on forums for being pimpin, well i would be one very embarressed and ashamed daughter. i would be giving my moma what for, and i would be telling her husband that he needs to take her out more so shes not on this forum.
all daughters want their mothers to be mothers and not be a weirdo with 4,000 posts on a forum for DJs.
all mothers want to be young and feel like a teenager in spite of this.
its how it works.
all daughters want their mothers to be mothers and not be a weirdo with 4,000 posts on a forum for DJs.
all mothers want to be young and feel like a teenager in spite of this.
its how it works.
penkitten
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you are not, but lets pretend you were.....DasaniWater said:
i wouldnt let you date guy that stand out in the street after midnite either.
typical
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I gotta say thats a fvcked up reason, just cause you saw some guy thats dating your daughter in the middle of the night on the street, that does not make him a badboy.
He could actually be a very educated young man whos just out having fun late at nights.
Now to the poster, bro who cares date the girl as long as you want if she gives you crap then dit(h the bit(h.
He could actually be a very educated young man whos just out having fun late at nights.
Now to the poster, bro who cares date the girl as long as you want if she gives you crap then dit(h the bit(h.
having the mother on my good side would make it WAY easier to see the GF. Having her NOT like me would make it a b1tch actually going out with my GF. Having to sneak out everywhere is only fun for a couple of weeks.
In other words typical, i gotta fix that.
So penkitten, what's your point?
It's obvious a mother wouldn't want her daughter dating a criminal.
I know that. Now what?
In other words typical, i gotta fix that.
So penkitten, what's your point?
It's obvious a mother wouldn't want her daughter dating a criminal.
I know that. Now what?
This is some funny ****.
And this is a first class whine. Why don't you make a good impression and dress up around them. Have her home at a reasonable hour. Call her dad sir and compliment her mom on how nice her shoes are.... you know, ROCKET SCIENTIST STUFF.
And this is a first class whine. Why don't you make a good impression and dress up around them. Have her home at a reasonable hour. Call her dad sir and compliment her mom on how nice her shoes are.... you know, ROCKET SCIENTIST STUFF.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
nice, also be ready to talk about school, your goals, dreams, etc,Sexual said:
Right now... Things are playing in your hands, her mom not wanting you to date her is helping you out...
1. We want what we can't have...
2. All teenagers are rebellious like this, especially girls... If her dad is an ex-con, lol, maybe she sees him in you. Girls love guys like their dads. And yes that's so ironic.
^ lol that never works.
You see that on tv a lot, lol but in real life it sucks to be in this guys position.
She could easily anytime just get a BF that doesn' cause sh!t in the family.
lol to the original poster your account name was filtered.
You see that on tv a lot, lol but in real life it sucks to be in this guys position.
She could easily anytime just get a BF that doesn' cause sh!t in the family.
lol to the original poster your account name was filtered.
The Juan and only
Master Don Juan
If things get unmanageable, you could try simply talking to the mother - might disarm her somewhat.
actually, the GF has broken up with guys over her mother before....So it's not exactly making me more attractive.
sexual...you are clueless.
it's hard making a good impression when she already thinks im a criminal.
Since she already thinks the worse, she would wonder how i can buy those expensive clothes im wearing to see her. I can't have her home at a resonable hour if she dosen't let her see me at all. The father is not a factor because he lives in a different place. When i do see him, that deverses a separate thread. kissing ass is not my style.
edit. I wil be talking to the moms in a couple days.
sexual...you are clueless.
it's hard making a good impression when she already thinks im a criminal.
Since she already thinks the worse, she would wonder how i can buy those expensive clothes im wearing to see her. I can't have her home at a resonable hour if she dosen't let her see me at all. The father is not a factor because he lives in a different place. When i do see him, that deverses a separate thread. kissing ass is not my style.
edit. I wil be talking to the moms in a couple days.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
well for starters i wouldnt be hanging out late at night out in the open where her mother is going to see you.******* said:
go somewhere else to hang out.
then she can tell her mother that you arent doing that anymore.
see where i am going with this?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.