"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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inzone50

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She says she isn't really comfortable (insecure about herself) to let me go down on her.

I'm guessing she thinks she will taste bad.

But i want to do it because i get my pleasure from giving her pleasure.

How do i get her to open up. Btw she is very comfortable with me as it s, she really steps out of her bubble around me.

Should i just give her time?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alkali

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Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
 

StoneColdFox

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Give her time, don't be pushy. That will only make things worse.

Let your sexual relationship grow, just like your "emotional" one.

the time will come, don't worry.
 

StoneColdFox

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Alkali said:
Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
I get the feeling you have a man crush on me lol.

No I am not Pook under a new alias lol.

But message me if you ever need anything Alkali, plus you need to tell me how things went last night.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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StoneColdFox

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When a person doesn't enjoy oral sex (regardless of their partner's talents) it's usually because they're self conscious. She's probably insecure about her body (or at least about your face in her vagina) and she's probably insecure about her ability to please you during oral sex.


You need to let her know how much it turns you on to eat her out. Tell her how much you love how she tastes. She'll eventually get used to you being down there and get more comfortable with time. Some women are very nervous about what they look/taste/smell like so you need to reassure her.
 
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