"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

GF won't let me go down on he

I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
She says she isn't really comfortable (insecure about herself) to let me go down on her.

I'm guessing she thinks she will taste bad.

But i want to do it because i get my pleasure from giving her pleasure.

How do i get her to open up. Btw she is very comfortable with me as it s, she really steps out of her bubble around me.

Should i just give her time?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

A

Alkali

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 4, 2007
Messages
397
Reaction score
0
Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
 
S

StoneColdFox

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2006
Messages
103
Reaction score
1
Give her time, don't be pushy. That will only make things worse.

Let your sexual relationship grow, just like your "emotional" one.

the time will come, don't worry.
 
S

StoneColdFox

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2006
Messages
103
Reaction score
1
Alkali said:
Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
Click to expand...
I get the feeling you have a man crush on me lol.

No I am not Pook under a new alias lol.

But message me if you ever need anything Alkali, plus you need to tell me how things went last night.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

S

StoneColdFox

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2006
Messages
103
Reaction score
1
When a person doesn't enjoy oral sex (regardless of their partner's talents) it's usually because they're self conscious. She's probably insecure about her body (or at least about your face in her vagina) and she's probably insecure about her ability to please you during oral sex.


You need to let her know how much it turns you on to eat her out. Tell her how much you love how she tastes. She'll eventually get used to you being down there and get more comfortable with time. Some women are very nervous about what they look/taste/smell like so you need to reassure her.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top