"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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inzone50

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She says she isn't really comfortable (insecure about herself) to let me go down on her.

I'm guessing she thinks she will taste bad.

But i want to do it because i get my pleasure from giving her pleasure.

How do i get her to open up. Btw she is very comfortable with me as it s, she really steps out of her bubble around me.

Should i just give her time?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
 
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Give her time, don't be pushy. That will only make things worse.

Let your sexual relationship grow, just like your "emotional" one.

the time will come, don't worry.
 
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Alkali said:
Dunno. Stone Cold Fox will help you. I get the feeling he's Pook under a new alias.
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I get the feeling you have a man crush on me lol.

No I am not Pook under a new alias lol.

But message me if you ever need anything Alkali, plus you need to tell me how things went last night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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StoneColdFox

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When a person doesn't enjoy oral sex (regardless of their partner's talents) it's usually because they're self conscious. She's probably insecure about her body (or at least about your face in her vagina) and she's probably insecure about her ability to please you during oral sex.


You need to let her know how much it turns you on to eat her out. Tell her how much you love how she tastes. She'll eventually get used to you being down there and get more comfortable with time. Some women are very nervous about what they look/taste/smell like so you need to reassure her.
 
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