"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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respect her wishes and resist the urge. avoid contact with her so she can start missing you and in return it will favor you. as for the cheating part, this could lead to dangerous territories :)
 
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aint-no-mystery-yet said:
she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
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NO. Let her try to salvage her relationship.

Sad part is he'll probably take her back too.:crazy:


Honestly do you really want a woman that YOU KNOW IS A CHEATER?

You've had some fun, now move on with some other options - respect the cheating slores decision to revert back to her betaprovider.:cool:

You were a bit of fun, now she's bored. If she "liked" you that much, she wouldn't be getting back to her boyfriend now, would she?


You remind me of a couple of my friends. She would break up with her b/f, have a bit of fun with my buddy - then get back with the b/f.

Eventually she ended up marrying her b/f.


You are not her priority no matter how much she claims to "like" you - she really wants her b/f.
 
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You do realize that one day you'll be in the same position as her current bf, don't you? Something to think about. You shouldn't of even entertained the thought. Lessen contact until she dumps him, then be careful with her. You gotta work overtime to make sure she'll stay in line.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thank you guys! Much appreciated. Well everyone I talk to says pretty much what u guys are all saying.
Dammmm, I got feelings for this chick too!
I'm not goin to contact her at all, she can contact me!
I know she has done wrong and so have I, but yet I still want her... Why???
I'm 27 I should grow a pair!!
 
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