"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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respect her wishes and resist the urge. avoid contact with her so she can start missing you and in return it will favor you. as for the cheating part, this could lead to dangerous territories :)
 
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aint-no-mystery-yet said:
she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
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NO. Let her try to salvage her relationship.

Sad part is he'll probably take her back too.:crazy:


Honestly do you really want a woman that YOU KNOW IS A CHEATER?

You've had some fun, now move on with some other options - respect the cheating slores decision to revert back to her betaprovider.:cool:

You were a bit of fun, now she's bored. If she "liked" you that much, she wouldn't be getting back to her boyfriend now, would she?


You remind me of a couple of my friends. She would break up with her b/f, have a bit of fun with my buddy - then get back with the b/f.

Eventually she ended up marrying her b/f.


You are not her priority no matter how much she claims to "like" you - she really wants her b/f.
 
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You do realize that one day you'll be in the same position as her current bf, don't you? Something to think about. You shouldn't of even entertained the thought. Lessen contact until she dumps him, then be careful with her. You gotta work overtime to make sure she'll stay in line.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thank you guys! Much appreciated. Well everyone I talk to says pretty much what u guys are all saying.
Dammmm, I got feelings for this chick too!
I'm not goin to contact her at all, she can contact me!
I know she has done wrong and so have I, but yet I still want her... Why???
I'm 27 I should grow a pair!!
 
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