"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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respect her wishes and resist the urge. avoid contact with her so she can start missing you and in return it will favor you. as for the cheating part, this could lead to dangerous territories :)
 

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aint-no-mystery-yet said:
she cheated on her bf with me, she likes me i like her. She's now on a trip with her bf to see if its going to work between them ( this is his last chance ). She said she doesn't want much contact with me while shes gone.
I feel like i should txt or email her, but just as friendly msg just so she knows im thinking of her. Should I??
NO. Let her try to salvage her relationship.

Sad part is he'll probably take her back too.:crazy:


Honestly do you really want a woman that YOU KNOW IS A CHEATER?

You've had some fun, now move on with some other options - respect the cheating slores decision to revert back to her betaprovider.:cool:

You were a bit of fun, now she's bored. If she "liked" you that much, she wouldn't be getting back to her boyfriend now, would she?


You remind me of a couple of my friends. She would break up with her b/f, have a bit of fun with my buddy - then get back with the b/f.

Eventually she ended up marrying her b/f.


You are not her priority no matter how much she claims to "like" you - she really wants her b/f.
 

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You do realize that one day you'll be in the same position as her current bf, don't you? Something to think about. You shouldn't of even entertained the thought. Lessen contact until she dumps him, then be careful with her. You gotta work overtime to make sure she'll stay in line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thank you guys! Much appreciated. Well everyone I talk to says pretty much what u guys are all saying.
Dammmm, I got feelings for this chick too!
I'm not goin to contact her at all, she can contact me!
I know she has done wrong and so have I, but yet I still want her... Why???
I'm 27 I should grow a pair!!
 
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