Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Like the title implies my gf went out with a guy to drink. She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me. Basically she told me the whole story after 2 weeks. What do you think I should do? I'm definitely not okay with her drinking with another guy and get drunk because I know its easy to get ****. This actually happen when we got into an argument, and during that week of argument she went out drinking. In my mind I was thinking ****ing ***** she wants another ****. Thanks god the guy is a ****ing chode and didn't try to **** her. But I know it was very easy for her to get ****, if it was a regular guy with some game. My question is how should I react?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You really don't give much details as to why she's out drinking with whoever this guy is and going back to his place. It doesn't matter. I'd tell her that what she did betrays every trust I'd want from her in a relationship. I'd next her, and hold fast. She's hung herself. I'd hurt her and break up with her in the most delightful fashion I could dream up. Then I'd go NC for 1 month, and find myself in a whole new frame of mind.
 
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RacerEx said:
You really don't give much details as to why she's out drinking with whoever this guy is and going back to his place. It doesn't matter. I'd tell her that what she did betrays every trust I'd want from her in a relationship. I'd next her, and hold fast. She's hung herself. I'd hurt her and break up with her in the most delightful fashion I could dream up. Then I'd go NC for 1 month, and find myself in a whole new frame of mind.
She went out drinking with another guy because we got into an argument that week, and she though we broke up. But again if she did lie would she have told me this, or keep it as a secret? and I would have never found out.
 

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walker_hunter2010 said:
Like the title implies my gf went out with a guy to drink. She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me. Basically she told me the whole story after 2 weeks. What do you think I should do? I'm definitely not okay with her drinking with another guy and get drunk because I know its easy to get ****. This actually happen when we got into an argument, and during that week of argument she went out drinking. In my mind I was thinking ****ing ***** she wants another ****. Thanks god the guy is a ****ing chode and didn't try to **** her. But I know it was very easy for her to get ****, if it was a regular guy with some game. My question is how should I react?
She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me.
This one is in the books. Time to look for a new GF.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ill probably need to confront her again and ill blow it up. But im not sure, what if she was telling the truth? Come on guys what would you guys have done?
 

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Well, she's your girlfriend yet she went to go DRINK WITH ANOTHER MAN.

Not only that, she went TO HIS PLACE.

Both of them drunk + his place = sex.

She's lying to you. In this situation, don't think about her. Think about what's best for you. Now, she's clearly lying to you. Even if she isn't, she still went out drinking with another man and went to his place! Do yourself a favor and just forget her and keep moving forward with your life. Don't look back for her. Just keep improving yourself and forget, let her stay in the past, thats the best you can do for yourself.
 

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Correction on thread title...

GF went out with guy and got railed.
 

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There's two reasons why she would be nervous to tell you.

1) She knows she's done something wrong, ie. she fvcked him.
2) She didn't fvck him, but suspects that you have enough of a spine to walk away at disrespect like this so she still doesn't really want you to know.
 

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She ****ed up and you know it. Yea it sucks, but she was 100% disrespectful and why would she tell you 2 weeks later? Just makes it seem like she was hiding something. Whatever she did with that guy, you don't want to be with someone who goes out drinking and then stays over drunk in a guys room. On to the next one my friend
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You two had an argument, in typical female fashion she acts with her emotions instead of thinking rationally and does something dumb. Her hamster brain uses chick logic to rationalize her sh*t behavior. Is this the type of chick that you want to continue to give your time to? Will you ever be able to trust her? Every time you have an argument or she's pissed off you have to wonder what she's going to do. Fvck that. Walk. You're better off.
 

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She totally went out for revenge d*ck and ordered a big serve of it, then did the old "tell him 1/2 the story so he'll believe the other 1/2" shtick*. Sorry bro. Expect it next time you fight too.

*sometimes also dressed up as "we slept in the same bed but didn't f*ck", or the old "we f*cked but I didn't enjoy it at all"
 

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When a fresh account (joined this month, very few posts) starts a thread with completely idiotic content, you can count on it being a troll thread.
 

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walker_hunter2010 said:
Like the title implies my gf went out with a guy to drink. She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me. Basically she told me the whole story after 2 weeks. What do you think I should do? I'm definitely not okay with her drinking with another guy and get drunk because I know its easy to get ****. This actually happen when we got into an argument, and during that week of argument she went out drinking. In my mind I was thinking ****ing ***** she wants another ****. Thanks god the guy is a ****ing chode and didn't try to **** her. But I know it was very easy for her to get ****, if it was a regular guy with some game. My question is how should I react?
I'm sorry man but what she did was disrespectful. Think about it (common sense and logic)...

YOUR GIRLFRIEND went out drinking with ANOTHER GUY, gets DRUNK with THIS GUY, crashes at HIS PLACE and CLAIMS she was just in ANOTHER ROOM.

OK, to be fair if she got drunk and the whole situation was platonic (which I highly doubt) and she did have some respect for you she could've....

1. Crashed at her friend's place
2. Taken a cab and go directly home

BUT SHE DIDN'T... The only way you find out is through an argument.

MEN AND WOMEN WHO GO OUT TOGETHER TO GET SMASHED AND SLEEP OVER AT THE GUY'S PLACE HAVE ONE THING IN MIND, THEY'RE DOWN TO FVCK.

IF SHE HAD ANY RESPECT FOR YOU AND THE RELATIONSHIP SHE WOULD'VE ACTED LIKE A LADY AND PURSUE THOSE 2 OPTIONS ABOVE BUT SHE DIDN'T. EVEN THE SLIGHTEST CHANCE SHE DIDN'T CHEAT ON YOU, SHE DOESN'T RESPECT THE BOUNDARIES OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

Personally I would get rid of her and pursue other women. You might consider her as an fvck buddy/low level plate but for the most I would get rid of her. Ultimately, it's your choice but just remember this...

IF SOMEONE WAS IMPORTANT/VALUABLE TO US WE WOULD NEVER RISK LOSING THEM.
 

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Mauser96 said:
Exactly. Same poster, same MO. Starts a thread and no matter what advice given, keeps changing the scenario making it worse so it can't be solved.
I hope I just didn't post in vain because if I did I just wasted a good 5 min...:eek:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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walker_hunter2010 said:
Like the title implies my gf went out with a guy to drink. She got drunk and sleep at his place at another room, and nothing happen that's what she told me. Basically she told me the whole story after 2 weeks. What do you think I should do? I'm definitely not okay with her drinking with another guy and get drunk because I know its easy to get ****. This actually happen when we got into an argument, and during that week of argument she went out drinking. In my mind I was thinking ****ing ***** she wants another ****. Thanks god the guy is a ****ing chode and didn't try to **** her. But I know it was very easy for her to get ****, if it was a regular guy with some game. My question is how should I react?
Troll post. Nobody is that stupid.
 

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Stop feeding the troll.
 

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yungballa said:
Well, she's your girlfriend yet she went to go DRINK WITH ANOTHER MAN.

Not only that, she went TO HIS PLACE.

Both of them drunk + his place = sex.

She's lying to you. In this situation, don't think about her. Think about what's best for you. Now, she's clearly lying to you. Even if she isn't, she still went out drinking with another man and went to his place! Do yourself a favor and just forget her and keep moving forward with your life. Don't look back for her. Just keep improving yourself and forget, let her stay in the past, thats the best you can do for yourself.
This. Repped. ^^^^^^
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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