"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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All I'm going to say is that this move was so disrespectful and, apparently, she thinks she can disrespect you like this and things WILL end up peachy.

Contemplate having a wife like that...the mother of your children behaving like that... Ugh
She's obviously going to control his choices.
 

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They don't look like men. On the outside is a pretty woman or attractive girl. The ego is of a Napoleon complex, shady guy that always one up you. She will not be "out manned".
I get it, the pic was for ironic effect.
 

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I get it, the pic was for ironic effect.
That's why sometimes these pretty "faggots" will fall for the most selfish alpha that you can't see any benefit of being with. It's because she is like that and he's the dominant. She respects that.
 

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That's why sometimes these pretty "faggots" will fall for the most selfish alpha that you can't see any benefit of being with. It's because she is like that and he's the dominant. She respects that.
Did you know pimps call *****s "faggot". The reason behind this is they are aggressive little men who will try to dominate you at every turn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How does your girlfriend have your mom's phone number?
 

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Sounds very convenient to me, before anything I would get the version of the story fron your mom.

Yeah it could be innocent, or she could have set it up as a high probability event.
Agree with this.

Verify 1st then only then consider your options.
 

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All I'm going to say is that this move was so disrespectful and, apparently, she thinks she can disrespect you like this and things WILL end up peachy.

Contemplate having a wife like that...the mother of your children behaving like that... Ugh
Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.

So I need to step back and really think about whether this girl has fully out framed me or suckered me into a position I don’t want to be in
 

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Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.

So I need to step back and really think about whether this girl has fully out framed me or suckered me into a position I don’t want to be in
Relax bro.

Some sex stuff are not enjoyed by the woman.

She's giving you sex 3 to 4 times a week... it means she care and wants you.

Obviously, she's putting the frame for a LTR and exclusive... in short the next stage.

A girl I use to be with.. We did have anal a few times and in the 6 months, like 1 a week or a month... eventually she told me it was painful. It took 1 year on my bday to get anal again.

Women don't love anal, especially if they tight and without lube.

Some sex fantasy stuff will become more " casual " or "sparse" you have to do deal with that cause they do it for us... but at least you are getting laid quite alot. The average couple is like 1 time a week or a month :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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At some point you either have to sh!t or get off the pot. That's pretty much her way of letting you know that time is here.

So either sh!t or get off the pot.
so this is how she goes about it? sneaky, underhanded and generally the worst way you could go about it by forcing a meeting? well, I'm sure you can guess how the rest of the relationship would go. why would anyone want to put themselves in that type of relationship? All I could say at that point is, hey, you knew what you were getting yourself into.
 

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Anal is not even an option for me, I've had it once with some hoebag. I'm too thick.

But what I realise from your post is sex 3-4 times a week is very healthy, I used to bang my ex 3-4 times in a night/morning.

Then it went down to once a week, and both of us were happy with that. I was happy not to see her for a week, how bad is that.
 

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Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.

So I need to step back and really think about whether this girl has fully out framed me or suckered me into a position I don’t want to be in
I'd say to stay on alert, and use more lube when you do anal.

If it's just anal then maybe she really doesn't like anal but had very high interest so she did it anyway to please you but can't stand to do it frequently for any longer

But if you start seeing other stuff deteriorating too, then either interest is lowered, you went from lover to provider or she's deceptive and thinks you're on the hook so she no longer needs to bother with effort
 

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so this is how she goes about it? sneaky, underhanded and generally the worst way you could go about it by forcing a meeting? well, I'm sure you can guess how the rest of the relationship would go. why would anyone want to put themselves in that type of relationship? All I could say at that point is, hey, you knew what you were getting yourself into.

Hey...i never claimed it was a good way of doing it just that it was her way of doing it...

If he wants to be involved in the drama filled mess this is heading towards more power to him...her pvssy must be made of gold
 

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Hey...i never claimed it was a good way of doing it just that it was her way of doing it...

If he wants to be involved in the drama filled mess this is heading towards more power to him...her pvssy must be made of gold
It’s definitely not made of gold, but it’s a good hole to fill to tide me over till I find the next
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea... It sounds like she's not comfortable being completely honest with you, out the gate, for fear of you not liking her for who she really is.
U can expect little white lies from her moving forward. The only way to stop it is to call her out on it and let her know you do not tolerate that from people and will not tolerate it from her. If she does it again, distance yourself.
 

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Yea... It sounds like she's not comfortable being completely honest with you, out the gate, for fear of you not liking her for who she really is.
U can expect little white lies from her moving forward. The only way to stop it is to call her out on it and let her know you do not tolerate that from people and will not tolerate it from her. If she does it again, distance yourself.
Some of em can't stop. The lying is who they are.
 

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Some of em can't stop. The lying is who they are.
I know. Sh1t like this drives me insane. Then when you call them out on it, they give you another white lie to cover the first white light up, sometimes even telling you you must have heard them wrong, trying to convince you you heard them wrong.

Thats allllll about a "NEXT!!!!!"
 

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I know. Sh1t like this drives me insane. Then when you call them out on it, they give you another white lie to cover the first white light up, sometimes even telling you you must have heard them wrong, trying to convince you you heard them wrong.

Thats allllll about a "NEXT!!!!!"
Or you plate em and make sure they know it. Dont try to force it to be loyal and have integrity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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