mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They don't look like men. On the outside is a pretty woman or attractive girl. The ego is of a Napoleon complex, shady guy that always one up you. She will not be "out manned".
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
They don't look like men. On the outside is a pretty woman or attractive girl. The ego is of a Napoleon complex, shady guy that always one up you. She will not be "out manned".
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She's obviously going to control his choices.All I'm going to say is that this move was so disrespectful and, apparently, she thinks she can disrespect you like this and things WILL end up peachy.
Contemplate having a wife like that...the mother of your children behaving like that... Ugh
I get it, the pic was for ironic effect.They don't look like men. On the outside is a pretty woman or attractive girl. The ego is of a Napoleon complex, shady guy that always one up you. She will not be "out manned".
That's why sometimes these pretty "faggots" will fall for the most selfish alpha that you can't see any benefit of being with. It's because she is like that and he's the dominant. She respects that.I get it, the pic was for ironic effect.
Did you know pimps call *****s "faggot". The reason behind this is they are aggressive little men who will try to dominate you at every turn.That's why sometimes these pretty "faggots" will fall for the most selfish alpha that you can't see any benefit of being with. It's because she is like that and he's the dominant. She respects that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Agree with this.Sounds very convenient to me, before anything I would get the version of the story fron your mom.
Yeah it could be innocent, or she could have set it up as a high probability event.
I’m guessing my mother gave it to her, or started a group chat. She’s been to many family gatheringsHow does your girlfriend have your mom's phone number?
Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.All I'm going to say is that this move was so disrespectful and, apparently, she thinks she can disrespect you like this and things WILL end up peachy.
Contemplate having a wife like that...the mother of your children behaving like that... Ugh
Relax bro.Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.
So I need to step back and really think about whether this girl has fully out framed me or suckered me into a position I don’t want to be in
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
so this is how she goes about it? sneaky, underhanded and generally the worst way you could go about it by forcing a meeting? well, I'm sure you can guess how the rest of the relationship would go. why would anyone want to put themselves in that type of relationship? All I could say at that point is, hey, you knew what you were getting yourself into.At some point you either have to sh!t or get off the pot. That's pretty much her way of letting you know that time is here.
So either sh!t or get off the pot.
I'd say to stay on alert, and use more lube when you do anal.Here’s the kicker. She was into anal the first 6 months, now it hurts to even try a finger. She blurts out anal isn’t my thing, that’s a guy thing, male g spots are in your butt, let me try it on you. I hate the fact that she lied about liking it, when really she did it to please me and now nothing. Sex is still 3-4 times a week minimum, but no kinky stuff like buttstuff.
So I need to step back and really think about whether this girl has fully out framed me or suckered me into a position I don’t want to be in
so this is how she goes about it? sneaky, underhanded and generally the worst way you could go about it by forcing a meeting? well, I'm sure you can guess how the rest of the relationship would go. why would anyone want to put themselves in that type of relationship? All I could say at that point is, hey, you knew what you were getting yourself into.
It’s definitely not made of gold, but it’s a good hole to fill to tide me over till I find the nextHey...i never claimed it was a good way of doing it just that it was her way of doing it...
If he wants to be involved in the drama filled mess this is heading towards more power to him...her pvssy must be made of gold
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Some of em can't stop. The lying is who they are.Yea... It sounds like she's not comfortable being completely honest with you, out the gate, for fear of you not liking her for who she really is.
U can expect little white lies from her moving forward. The only way to stop it is to call her out on it and let her know you do not tolerate that from people and will not tolerate it from her. If she does it again, distance yourself.
I know. Sh1t like this drives me insane. Then when you call them out on it, they give you another white lie to cover the first white light up, sometimes even telling you you must have heard them wrong, trying to convince you you heard them wrong.Some of em can't stop. The lying is who they are.
Or you plate em and make sure they know it. Dont try to force it to be loyal and have integrity.I know. Sh1t like this drives me insane. Then when you call them out on it, they give you another white lie to cover the first white light up, sometimes even telling you you must have heard them wrong, trying to convince you you heard them wrong.
Thats allllll about a "NEXT!!!!!"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.