"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GREAT WHITE SHARK

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I dont.

We kind of broke up because "You dont talk about our future, you dont build plans with me!"

And because of that we dont miss each other anymore... it really feels that we are no longer together, but we are still trying to get together again...


... and I know she will want to talk about "the future"... I want to get married... in 2010! not today! not tomorrow! not in 3 years!

but she wants....

should I broke up with her?

what would you do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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25 me
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Why don't you want to get married?

If she's not the one - break it off now.

Just understand what you rdoing and what your losing. If that's exceptable - then there you go.

A similar thing happened to me - I was stringing a girl on and on - and she wanted to get married. In the end she broke it off.

I can't say I regret it - but I do regret not breaking it off sooner.

If you string her along she will only resent you more and more. And she WILL eventually end it.
 
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"You dont talk about our future, you dont build plans with me"

^The writing's on the wall. Can't you people see it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Prepare to hand over your testicles if you cave in now.
 
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You're both young, with different goals.
She wants a relationship that leads into the future (including children I'm sure) you don't. Let her go.
 
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