"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I dont.

We kind of broke up because "You dont talk about our future, you dont build plans with me!"

And because of that we dont miss each other anymore... it really feels that we are no longer together, but we are still trying to get together again...


... and I know she will want to talk about "the future"... I want to get married... in 2010! not today! not tomorrow! not in 3 years!

but she wants....

should I broke up with her?

what would you do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why don't you want to get married?

If she's not the one - break it off now.

Just understand what you rdoing and what your losing. If that's exceptable - then there you go.

A similar thing happened to me - I was stringing a girl on and on - and she wanted to get married. In the end she broke it off.

I can't say I regret it - but I do regret not breaking it off sooner.

If you string her along she will only resent you more and more. And she WILL eventually end it.
 
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"You dont talk about our future, you dont build plans with me"

^The writing's on the wall. Can't you people see it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prepare to hand over your testicles if you cave in now.
 
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You're both young, with different goals.
She wants a relationship that leads into the future (including children I'm sure) you don't. Let her go.
 
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