"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gf wants to hang out 24/7

captain55

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She may be the type who assumes you're banging someone else any time you go more than an hour without texting her. I can assure you it only gets worse as time goes by.
Pretty much
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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captain55

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I had a gf like this when I was 18. She was my first real gf. Somehow I wasted 2.5 yrs with her before I had enough. I got sick of not being able to ever hangout with my friends on my own. I ended up dumping her. This will not end well for you. Either put her in her place or dump her.
The thing is I am about to turn 27. Kind of getting towards that age 30 where it might be creepy gaming young 22 year olds at bars all the time
 

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I’ve met a pretty solid chick. She’s submissive and does everything for me. The issue is she wants to see me 24:7. I’m finding myself getting annoyed.

For example today I’ve been working 6am to 3pm and I get a text message saying “busy huh? You haven’t asked me how my day is “

I like the girl and don’t wanna sound like an ******* but how do I tell her do give me space without hurting her causing more drama ?
Desperate, maybe clingy and hopefully not psychotic. She'll be available anytime. I never understood why girls didn't like that until it was happening to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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