lol you serious? I failed her test?
Like Zekko says... who the F..K cares about her test? she knew without me telling her, that if she would have gone, I would have started spinning plates, and that would have been the end of the relationship..
SHE PASSED MY TEST!
not only that, we are still together, I have set strong boundaries with her.... one on one diners with a guy friend? you are done and out of my life in a second....
of course same rules apply to my behavior....
she is currently happy and every day since then tells me " i love you" "good morning" "good nights" and making plans for the future.... and she is doing most of the work....
yes, i did not fail any test if anything, she appreciated my honesty about how i felt, and she respected it....
this is a guy friend she has had since 6th grade, he calls her to catch up on his life situations,, he has a wife.... and he reminds her of her brother who was killed two years ago, who also had similar issues....
she asked me if i wanted her to stopped talking to him when he calls her (once every 3 months) and I said I wouldnt do that, but that I trust her to make the right decisions and not cross my boundaries... i dont really see the guy as a threat... he lives out of town... and barely calls
Like Zekko says... who the F..K cares about her test? she knew without me telling her, that if she would have gone, I would have started spinning plates, and that would have been the end of the relationship..
SHE PASSED MY TEST!
not only that, we are still together, I have set strong boundaries with her.... one on one diners with a guy friend? you are done and out of my life in a second....
of course same rules apply to my behavior....
she is currently happy and every day since then tells me " i love you" "good morning" "good nights" and making plans for the future.... and she is doing most of the work....
yes, i did not fail any test if anything, she appreciated my honesty about how i felt, and she respected it....
this is a guy friend she has had since 6th grade, he calls her to catch up on his life situations,, he has a wife.... and he reminds her of her brother who was killed two years ago, who also had similar issues....
she asked me if i wanted her to stopped talking to him when he calls her (once every 3 months) and I said I wouldnt do that, but that I trust her to make the right decisions and not cross my boundaries... i dont really see the guy as a threat... he lives out of town... and barely calls
