Dhoulmagus
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She's been asking why do we have to have sex every time we meet up. What doooo
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gf thinks I use her for sex
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
She expects there to be no sex in a relationship? I love this sh*t from women who always say "why does it ALWAYS have to be about sex with you" or something like that, because they want to talk about their "feelings" or other BS.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Dhoulmagus
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Weve had sex every time, but I will withdraw something she likes if she tries to press any furtherBetterCallSaul said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dhoulmagus
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Jokes on you because I left out a lot of information. I wanted to see how negative most of the posters on this board are. But really, we have had sex every time and I usually have to finger her to get her in the mood. Sometimes she will just attack me out of no where like she forced sex with me in a pool around my friends, but she always moans when I want to initiate it.Peña said:
No the joke is on YOU for trolling and leaving out information. What do you expect people to say on that? It is not being negative when you write as what is happening to you is negative. Girls that say you only use them for sex is their way to bail. You wrote it as a bad thing and left out the information on purpose to troll. I will not take you seriously as a poster.Dhoulmagus said:
My ex pulled this exact same **** on me, month later it was over.
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.