Dhoulmagus
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She's been asking why do we have to have sex every time we meet up. What doooo
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Gf thinks I use her for sex
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
She expects there to be no sex in a relationship? I love this sh*t from women who always say "why does it ALWAYS have to be about sex with you" or something like that, because they want to talk about their "feelings" or other BS.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Dhoulmagus
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Weve had sex every time, but I will withdraw something she likes if she tries to press any furtherBetterCallSaul said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dhoulmagus
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Jokes on you because I left out a lot of information. I wanted to see how negative most of the posters on this board are. But really, we have had sex every time and I usually have to finger her to get her in the mood. Sometimes she will just attack me out of no where like she forced sex with me in a pool around my friends, but she always moans when I want to initiate it.Peña said:
No the joke is on YOU for trolling and leaving out information. What do you expect people to say on that? It is not being negative when you write as what is happening to you is negative. Girls that say you only use them for sex is their way to bail. You wrote it as a bad thing and left out the information on purpose to troll. I will not take you seriously as a poster.Dhoulmagus said:
My ex pulled this exact same **** on me, month later it was over.
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.