Dhoulmagus
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She's been asking why do we have to have sex every time we meet up. What doooo
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Gf thinks I use her for sex
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
She expects there to be no sex in a relationship? I love this sh*t from women who always say "why does it ALWAYS have to be about sex with you" or something like that, because they want to talk about their "feelings" or other BS.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Dhoulmagus
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Weve had sex every time, but I will withdraw something she likes if she tries to press any furtherBetterCallSaul said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dhoulmagus
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Jokes on you because I left out a lot of information. I wanted to see how negative most of the posters on this board are. But really, we have had sex every time and I usually have to finger her to get her in the mood. Sometimes she will just attack me out of no where like she forced sex with me in a pool around my friends, but she always moans when I want to initiate it.Peña said:
No the joke is on YOU for trolling and leaving out information. What do you expect people to say on that? It is not being negative when you write as what is happening to you is negative. Girls that say you only use them for sex is their way to bail. You wrote it as a bad thing and left out the information on purpose to troll. I will not take you seriously as a poster.Dhoulmagus said:
My ex pulled this exact same **** on me, month later it was over.
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.