Dhoulmagus
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She's been asking why do we have to have sex every time we meet up. What doooo
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gf thinks I use her for sex
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
She expects there to be no sex in a relationship? I love this sh*t from women who always say "why does it ALWAYS have to be about sex with you" or something like that, because they want to talk about their "feelings" or other BS.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Men make it really simple: we want sex with a hot woman who enjoys it. That's really it. But women go and try to make it complicated....
"He doesn't understand me"
"He doesn't get my emotional state at all"
"He doesn't let me talk about how I feel"
and on and on.
Yet with this 1 very simple thing men want, we're shamed for it. Do not ever let a woman make you feel inferior for wanting sex or like it's supposed to take a back seat to her stupid BS. She wants equals? She better damn well start putting out on a regular basis so much to the point that she's initiates more than you do.
Dhoulmagus
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Weve had sex every time, but I will withdraw something she likes if she tries to press any furtherBetterCallSaul said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dhoulmagus
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Jokes on you because I left out a lot of information. I wanted to see how negative most of the posters on this board are. But really, we have had sex every time and I usually have to finger her to get her in the mood. Sometimes she will just attack me out of no where like she forced sex with me in a pool around my friends, but she always moans when I want to initiate it.Peña said:
No the joke is on YOU for trolling and leaving out information. What do you expect people to say on that? It is not being negative when you write as what is happening to you is negative. Girls that say you only use them for sex is their way to bail. You wrote it as a bad thing and left out the information on purpose to troll. I will not take you seriously as a poster.Dhoulmagus said:
My ex pulled this exact same **** on me, month later it was over.
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
It was all well and good when she wanted it, but when I initiated id get an earful half the time. In my situation, I feel as though it was the first step of many for her to try and switch things over to being on her terms the whole time
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.