Agreed!DonGorgon said:LOL... and you know she is gonna do what she wants anyway and find a way to blame you for it..
If she's with you the way you are now, then don't go a changin'!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Agreed!DonGorgon said:LOL... and you know she is gonna do what she wants anyway and find a way to blame you for it..
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yep. She'll probably do something you don't like and then turn it around on you, making it your fault. Her excuse will probably be something like "Well you always act like you don't care, and I felt un-loved (or whatever) and that's why I did it". Women are the GRANDMASTERS of these little deceptive games.DonGorgon said:LOL... and you know she is gonna do what she wants anyway and find a way to blame you for it..
Never rationalize what a woman does and always hold them accountable for their own actions.jadeona13 said:i knowww..they areee so deceptive like that!!
thats why i need to know how to win that stupid little game!!
Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.jadeona13 said:i was at my GF the other day..she just got texting and a new cell..she is sitting on my lap texting for like 10 mins..i say, "can i see ur phone''...she gives ,me the phone and gets a text from a kid named Jack..who was her ex bf, but only for a week..
the texts says.."Isnt ur BF gna be mad we are texting?'' and "I dont care if hes mad whatever we are just friends''
i told her i dont like it and she says. they are just friends
she is still texting him
should i worry?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Read the OP again..Ken785 said:Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.![]()
Red07 said:Read the OP again..
He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.
WHAT?!? so they consider a 1 week relationship as GF/BF??? how old are you guys??Red07 said:Read the OP again..
He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.