"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
GF texting EX bf
- Thread starter jadeona13
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yep. She'll probably do something you don't like and then turn it around on you, making it your fault. Her excuse will probably be something like "Well you always act like you don't care, and I felt un-loved (or whatever) and that's why I did it". Women are the GRANDMASTERS of these little deceptive games.DonGorgon said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.jadeona13 said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Read the OP again..Ken785 said:Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.
He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
WHAT?!? so they consider a 1 week relationship as GF/BF??? how old are you guys??Red07 said:
If one week things count as relationships then ive had dozens of them.