"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GF texting EX bf
- Thread starter jadeona13
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yep. She'll probably do something you don't like and then turn it around on you, making it your fault. Her excuse will probably be something like "Well you always act like you don't care, and I felt un-loved (or whatever) and that's why I did it". Women are the GRANDMASTERS of these little deceptive games.DonGorgon said:
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.jadeona13 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Read the OP again..Ken785 said:Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did.
He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
WHAT?!? so they consider a 1 week relationship as GF/BF??? how old are you guys??Red07 said:
If one week things count as relationships then ive had dozens of them.