Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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GF texting EX bf

Mavrick

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DonGorgon said:
LOL... and you know she is gonna do what she wants anyway and find a way to blame you for it..
Agreed!

If she's with you the way you are now, then don't go a changin'!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon said:
LOL... and you know she is gonna do what she wants anyway and find a way to blame you for it..
Yep. She'll probably do something you don't like and then turn it around on you, making it your fault. Her excuse will probably be something like "Well you always act like you don't care, and I felt un-loved (or whatever) and that's why I did it". Women are the GRANDMASTERS of these little deceptive games.
 

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i knowww..they areee so deceptive like that!!

thats why i need to know how to win that stupid little game!!
 

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jadeona13 said:
i knowww..they areee so deceptive like that!!

thats why i need to know how to win that stupid little game!!
Never rationalize what a woman does and always hold them accountable for their own actions.
 

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jadeona13 said:
i was at my GF the other day..she just got texting and a new cell..she is sitting on my lap texting for like 10 mins..i say, "can i see ur phone''...she gives ,me the phone and gets a text from a kid named Jack..who was her ex bf, but only for a week..

the texts says.."Isnt ur BF gna be mad we are texting?'' and "I dont care if hes mad whatever we are just friends''

i told her i dont like it and she says. they are just friends

she is still texting him

should i worry?
Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken785 said:
Dude, im sorry...i dont know why you posted that she was your GF, when in the text it says she just broke up with her ex... A WEEK ago. Also she says you're just a friend. Fvck her...go out and approach different chicks...trust me, you search through the ruble long enough, you'll find your diamond...i did. :up:
Read the OP again..

He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.
 

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Red07 said:
Read the OP again..

He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.

yesss thanks for clearin that up =]
 

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Red07 said:
Read the OP again..

He said the girl and the ex were together for only one week. Not AGO.
And that the girl and the ex are "friends". Not the OP and the girl.
WHAT?!? so they consider a 1 week relationship as GF/BF??? how old are you guys??

If one week things count as relationships then ive had dozens of them. :eek:
 
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