"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Out of the blue and kind of out of character, but my Gf sent me a text saying that she has now booked flights to Spain and the hotel for both of us. She even sent me pictures of the confirmed bookings.

I’m not going to hide the fact that I’m happy about it because we haven’t seen eachother in 3 months (she’s abroad for her studies).

My question is: Should I be worried about this in any way, or does she genuinely want to spend some time with me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lmao...yeah she is planning to set you up to have a criminal gang kidnap you and hold you for ransom. Don't go.
 

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Or she’s going to drug me, handcuff me to the hotel bed and proceed to have sex with me for the whole 96 hours.
And then have you kidnapped...always gotta get hers first right??
 

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A real.man dont let a women make vacation plan for him!!!!

Joke a side idk
Just enjoy it i guess
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redskinsfan92

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Just told my coworker I'm down to travel anywhere if someone else covers the expense. Lol
 

devilkingx2

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I would be curious about this too tbh. Where does a student get that kind of money?

Plan for the best, prepare for the worst, don't do anything crazy to mess it up, then have fun!
 

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Pull your skirt down, go have fun

The hell are you worried about
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Von

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I would be curious about this too tbh. Where does a student get that kind of money?

Plan for the best, prepare for the worst, don't do anything crazy to mess it up, then have fun!
In Europe plane tickets are under 100$

Beside, in Canada, all students travel the world during their holidays.

It's Spain, it's cheap even on the Euro. Look it up and go have fun.. Parties start from 11pm to 9am
 

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I would be curious about this too tbh. Where does a student get that kind of money?

Plan for the best, prepare for the worst, don't do anything crazy to mess it up, then have fun!
Lol it’s €75 per person, both way flights and the hotel for 4 nights.
 

Occitanie31fr

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In Europe plane tickets are under 100$

Beside, in Canada, all students travel the world during their holidays.

It's Spain, it's cheap even on the Euro. Look it up and go have fun.. Parties start from 11pm to 9am
Plane tickets to London are outrageous at the moment, so I won’t be able to go visit my family.

The tickets to Spain are so cheap because our trip is after the new year
 

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The way your title was worded, I thought this was going in an entirely different direction. Enjoy the damn trip man
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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