"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GF says she wants to try light bondage
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lizardking82
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I agree with @Murkserious women are submissive creatures.Try some light bondage and gradually increase from light to hard.My guess is that she is into hard bondage and is afraid to tell you so because women hardly ever bring it up they usually like the man to lead with that so you might have a stone cold freak on your hands
.What you should do is ask her if she would like to try a pvssy spanking while handcuffed."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lizardking82
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Don't ask her. Do it already.I agree with @Murkserious women are submissive creatures.Try some light bondage and gradually increase from light to hard.My guess is that she is into hard bondage and is afraid to tell you so because women hardly ever bring it up they usually like the man to lead with that so you might have a stone cold freak on your hands
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bible_Belt
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Jesus!
On a related note, there seems to be a "demand" for golden showers.....
A little birdie told me that many escorts offer that "service".
Not sure how one would arrive at the conclusion that they desire to be pissed on to get their sexual kicks.