"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GF says she wants to try light bondage
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lizardking82
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I agree with @Murkserious women are submissive creatures.Try some light bondage and gradually increase from light to hard.My guess is that she is into hard bondage and is afraid to tell you so because women hardly ever bring it up they usually like the man to lead with that so you might have a stone cold freak on your hands
.What you should do is ask her if she would like to try a pvssy spanking while handcuffed."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lizardking82
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Don't ask her. Do it already.I agree with @Murkserious women are submissive creatures.Try some light bondage and gradually increase from light to hard.My guess is that she is into hard bondage and is afraid to tell you so because women hardly ever bring it up they usually like the man to lead with that so you might have a stone cold freak on your hands
greatsnake
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
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Jesus!
On a related note, there seems to be a "demand" for golden showers.....
A little birdie told me that many escorts offer that "service".
Not sure how one would arrive at the conclusion that they desire to be pissed on to get their sexual kicks.