"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GF off the pill

Fireballs

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She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taking a medicine for a long time means the condition is treatable but not curable. I know that docs like to stop even heavy clinical cases from the pill just to see whats up.
 

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Different brands of pills affect women different ways. My ex-fiancee bounced across different brands of birth control and each one affected her moods differently. One was so bad I demanded that she change back to a previous one.
 

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Fireballs said:
She was prescribed it quite young as she has Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and has now decided to get a Merina (contraception) put in so she can get off the pill and see how she goes.

She is happy all the time and hardly in a bad mood but I'm expecting that to change?

Has anyone had experience with their gf/partner coming off the pill?

Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?



YawataNoKami said:
It's a trap. Run.
He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Peña said:
Let me tell you about a woman that worked at my mom's bakery for years. She has the same condition as your girlfriend. She has suffered from depression and was on the pill to help her with her body. Her condition makes it really hard to get pregnant. The older she gets the harder it will be. She is been off the pill for 6 months and is trying to get pregnant and can not so far. Her husband and her are now looking for other methods to get pregnant. She seems in a better mood at times but upset about her condition. Does she have other problems besides the mood swing like weight gain, body/facial hair, hair loss?





He does not know what he is talking about. Not knowing nothing about anything.
I have only seen her moody when she tried a different brand of pill which I made her change back. She has put on a small amount of weight but is working hard in the gym and eating right and no issues with hair loss.

She got the Merina put in last night and I'm away for a week before I see her so she's stopped the pill so will be interesting to see her moods while I'm away and when I get back.
 

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my ex was much happier and hornier when she was not on contraception. She started using the Nuvaring and it totally fvcked up her moods. She was always moody, sad, and had no sex drive. It was basically killing our relationship. She switched to the pill and it was a massive improvement although her mood and sex drive was definitely not where it was before...but sadly contraception is a necessary evil if you're having sex all the time
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A girl going off the pill is definitely more likely to cheat. However if you are a masculine male chances are she will actually be more attracted to you than previously. Studies show women on birth control are less attracted to masculine men
 
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